Monday, August 01, 2005

Starting Occupational Therapy

Clare started her occupational therapy (OT) today. Jessica, her therapist, came over to the house for the first time. Clare's OT will concentrate on her fine motor skills right now - such as grasping objects with her hands, bringing them to her mouth, etc. Since OT and PT overlap, Jessica is also going to work on helping Clare learn to roll and gain better head control. Once Clare is a little older, she will most likely have an occupational therapist and a physical therapist, but for now, she will do only OT once a week.

We really liked Jessica. She was super-friendly and great with both Clare and Jamie. It's hard for Jamie to not be the center of attention (after all, he is so used to it - with all his adoring aunties, uncle, and grandparents!!), so he often tried to "help out" with the therapy session. Jessica was very patient with him, and we are incorporating Jamie into Clare's therapy so he is included. I was told by a good friend (who has a disabled daughter) that the siblings are sometimes the best therapists because they will push their sibling beyond what the parents will. Jamie doesn't care if Clare is turning away from a toy or starting to fuss - he continues to play with her and get her to play with him. But I am digressing....

Anyway, Jessica commented that Clare has made a lot of progress since her initial evaluation a month ago and was very pleased with what she saw. Clare is doing very well with continuing to develop her skill at grasping objects and bringing her hands together. She is right on track developmentally when it comes to rolling (can get almost all the way from front-to-back and back-to-front), but will most likely have a little trouble with the last step because of the weakness in her left side. She needs more tummy time but that gets a little tough because Clare does not like tummy time since it is very hard for her, and we aren't supposed to let her get too worked up because of her heart. But she needs the tummy time to strengthen her neck muscles and head control and the lifting up on her arms will help increase the strength in her left side. It's a bit of a Catch-22, but we've developed a plan to do a little tummy time many times throughout the day instead of doing a lot all at once. So that's one of our main concentrations right now.

In other news, Clare's second catheterization is scheduled for October 7. It is our understanding that the plan, at this time, is to re-dilate the four pulmonary arteries from the last cath plus dilate some of the smaller ones as well. Clare sees all her doctors this month plus meets a new doctor (her ENT doctor who will most likely clip her tongue-tied next week), so we are eager to hear how everyone thinks she's doing.

Clare continues to do great at home. She is getting back into her sleep pattern again, so Shawn does not have to drive her around every night anymore! It is hard to believe she is already four months old. In some ways, it feels like she has been with us forever, but in other ways, I am constantly reminded of how time flies when your children are growing before your eyes.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Teresa & Shawn- It is wonderful to hear about the great progress Clare is making!! Again, thank you for sharing! Aunt Joan

Anonymous said...

Teresa & Shawn: It was really neat reading about your recent "pic-a-nic" experience! Sounds as if the attendees gave you a wonderful gift, likely without even knowing they were doing so. There is a beautiful Wayne Watson song that says something to the effect that "God alone deciphers when we need each other most". I'm sure that's proven true for you on many ocassions and under many circumstances these past months. May it always be so in your journey with your beautiful children.........We sure do enjoy keeping up-to-date with your family via your blog.......Take care! Larry & Betsy Lewczyk

Anonymous said...

Hi Teresa and Shawn,

How wonderful your updates are for all of us. It sounds like you are on top of everything and that Clare is doing just great. She has a wonderful big brother that will show her the way. Kids do have a language that is theirs alone. I wish I could reach right into this note and send all of you a big hug and kiss.

Your story of the "pic-a-nic" was so uplifting and oh so true. Special people have an enormous influence on us. They make you stop and think how wonderful the small things in life truly are to all of us. May God bless them for sharing their miracles. I am so glad you had such a wonderful time.

We think of you often and pray that God will continue to bless all of you.

Love,
Aunt Lynn

Anonymous said...

Dear Shawn & Teresa,

A good friend of mine found out 2 years ago that her oldest child, a boy, has MD. At a MOPS meeting at our church she shared the following analogy. She said it is like planning a trip to Italy. You look forward to the sites and food, etc. Then, while on the plane you get rerouted to say, Switzerland. Switzerland is great, the food is fabulous, beautiful sites - but it is not Italy. But, it is great too.

She said that having found out that her son has this condition is like that. She had certain plans in her mind about her small child, but now they have been slightly rerouted. The trip is still great, but just different.

I try to imagine that for other things too. Life is what happens when nothing goes according to plan. But it is all a great trip.

Thanks for including us in your personal lives. I feel very close to you all. You remain as always in our thoughts and prayers.

I liked the pictures! They are both so adorable and growing so fast!

Henry starts kindergarten in less than two weeks and Samuel will be in fifth grade. It does fly by!

Much love to all!

Rebecca